How can someone who says they love you try to physically hurt you? What is going on in their brains that makes it alright to hurt someone physically and emotionally?
Let just say after my ex had damaged my car by hitting it with his we had broken up. I thought that this was the last time. I told myself it was time to move on. Of course it did not take him long to move on. He already had someone in his bed that night. As for me I was never really the one to jump into another relationship.
Of course I had friends or as I would call them now acquaintances, anyway we hung out we did things. I tried to work as much as possible to keep me occupied. It helped though that most of my friends also worked where I did. We would always have such a blast. We all formed a pretty close bond and we hung out with each other outside of work too. The crazy stories I could tell you just from that place, but I wont because that is not part of this.
There was a guy that started to work there. He was pretty cool and we got along. He presented himself as a respectful person. We would talk and hang out. After a week we started dating. Little did I know that this so-called good guy was just another scum in this world. He was in the Army and of course had his times where he had to go for training. I would always meet up with him when he got back.
Well one day while at work I was waiting for him to call. When he finally did he was a complete jerk. He was trying to push me away I could tell. He started to accuse me of cheating and called me all kinds of names. As I said before at this time I was not one to cheat. I got off the phone with him and I started to talk to my friends.
Later on that day I got a call from some women just going off on me. I had no clue who this woman was. She kept bringing up his name. I kept asking who she was and what did she want. After a few minutes I ended up hanging up on her. As soon as I hung up on her I called him and asked him what was going on and why was this lady calling me yelling at me. He went on to say this lady had a thing for him and to not listen to what she said.
As the day went on I was talking to a friend that was friends with the people he was living with. She had contacted them and them about him and what was going on. Well here is the shocker everyone. He got cheating with his Sergeant wife. His Sergeant found out and beat the crap out of him.
What I did not know was what he did is a big no-no in the Army and he got in a lot of trouble. He had to go to court and was discharged. The wife tried to leave with him and he told her no and left. So he not only cheated on me but he also ruined a marriage. I found out she lost everything. I guess karma really is a bitch!